Listen to the Silence

UPDATE:   This was written almost a year ago this month, originally.   As of 12/20/2013, my girl, Cassandra Marie, has earned her collar.   A big part of that was reading this, and taking to heart…and surrendering her heart.    So congratulations, to my girl.  You belong to me, until the end.    --------------------------- I don’t know that I’ll publish this.   I may just clean it up, edit it, and leave it printed on the bed one day when I go into work.    But it’s something you need to read – and I wonder if it’s something other slaves need to read as well. So.   You’ve asked it.  You’ve asked over and over.   And over.   And over again.  ·          “Sir, when can I have my collar?” ·          “Can we pick out collars today, Sir?   *nudge-nudge*?”  ·          “Daddy, wheee-eeen are you going to collar me?” ·          “Sir… <name> was just collared…why haven’t I been? ” ·          “After the Wedding, then can I be collared?” ·         

During this holiday season, we’re all generally swamped with bills, shopping for presents, donations to charities, office parties, Polly-Annas, Secret Santas, decorating the house, minding the kids during holiday break…and the list goes on. I’ve personally blown through two full paychecks, for family presents, Secret Santas, Polly-Annas, house decorations, and gas to and from stores and stupid office parties.   I’d just like to take a second to ask that you remember the kink community during this holiday.   Not in a “lets have a Christmas play party!” way, or a “let’s do a seasonal canned food drive wearing leather!” kind of way.    Try to remember our community in the spirit of the holiday – giving and loving. There are a LOT of canned food drives already going on (and feel free to help them, they’re always in need).      There are also a lot of charities, and I particularly suggest supporting the Marine Corp’s “Toys for Tots”, in your vanilla life.   For us the holiday should b

Just realized I never put up these - a little list of books I send links to for newbies who ask me, or give to new people if I have them in stock and available) when I meet them. More to come, as I get them translated from straight links into doc'd HTML, and clean code. Good Books for Beginners - The Topping Book The Bottoming Book The Ultimate Guide to Kink BDSM Primer - Fetishes, Rituals and Protocols Good Bondage Books for Beginners - Two Knotty Boys Show you the Ropes Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage Power Exchange Books - Bondage  Shibari You Can Use  Good FemDom Books for Beginners - The Mistress Manual of Female Dominance The Sexually Dominant Woman Beginner's Guide The Art of Sensual Female Dominance At Her Feet - Guide to Empowering Your FemDom Relationship

Just a couple of quick ideas for christmas gifts - about two weeks late.  ^_^   Great Bondage Books http://www.amazon.com/Shibari-You-Can-Use-Japanese/dp/061514490X/ref=pd_sim_b_42 http://www.amazon.com/Two-Knotty-Boys-Showing-Ropes/dp/B0088UIFMY/ref=pd_sim_b_33 http://www.amazon.com/The-Seductive-Art-Japanese-Bondage/dp/1890159387/ref=pd_sim_b_39 http://www.amazon.com/Ropes-Bondage-Power-Exchange-Resource/dp/1935509020/ref=pd_sim_b_49 Great General BDSM Relationship Books http://www.amazon.com/Living-Masters-slaves-Their-Relationships/dp/1610981952/ref=pd_sim_b_6 http://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Slavehood-Miss-Abernathy-Omnibus/dp/1890159719/ref=pd_sim_b_41 http://www.amazon.com/Abernathys-Concise-Slave-Training-Manual/dp/0963976397/ref=pd_sim_b_64 http://www.amazon.com/The-Control-Book-Peter-Masters/dp/1442173866/ref=pd_sim_sbs_b_4 http://www.amazon.com/The-Masters-Manual-Handbook-Dominance/dp/1881943038/ref=pd_sim_b_3 http://www.amazon.com/Master-slave-R

Yep, I’m back.   And no “cool down” time on this one.   (You know it’s gonna be tart when I’m playing Marilyn Manson and KMFDM while I’m writing.) “My submission is a gift!”   Can we please stop this shit?   Please?    I mean come the fuck on…”my submission is a gift to be cherished”, “my Dominance is a gift to your womanliness”, “my sexuality is my offering to you”… Fucking stop it.   Seriously.   You sound like a fucking twat, and a prissy one at that.   Or, if you want the modern version…. “You sound like a cunt.”   And yes, I mean that to the men, too.   Dominance and submission are nouns.   They are states of being.   They can be used to indicate roles in a relationship.   They can identify markers, attitudes, philosophies and personalities.   They are ultimately expressions of psyche, or sexuality.   They are not – repeat NOT – fucking gifts. A gift?   That’s something you give someone, without expectation of return.  “Gift (noun): a thing given

So I finally have new product photos up on the site.   Dear Gods that took forever...but I also convinced the model to let me do some cute photos of her, so "bonus". Two new rants coming next week, once I've let them cool down a bit...this has been a very irritating week in kink. KFetish Model Mayhem - New Pictures New Product Photos at CreativeKinkProducts.Com 

   I miss photography.   I really, really, really do.   One of these days I've got to get back into doing good old fashioned color and black and white fetish photography - maybe even pick up a studio and start doing it for a full time hobby. In the meantime - enjoy the whip marks.  This one was taken a few years ago, when I was still married to a Pro Domme - this was one of her victims.    ^_^