A Few Things to Remember About Fetlife
1. There is more to life than Fetlife. No matter how many times you check the site - you are not going to be blasted by some blazingly new enlightenment about yourself, or swamped by a ton of sexy bits who suddenly want a taste of you. Get your ass off of the computer for at least four hours a week - by going to a munch, a class, or a play party. 2. There is MORE to life than FETLIFE. If you are basing your opinions on people, fetishes, situations, or claims of rape/harassment/abuse/consent-violations on things you have read/love'd/been told/heard about on Fetlife - you are part of the problem. Please, for the love of god - go out into the REAL scene and learn something worthwhile. Like macrame. Or karaoke. 3. The site is what it is, and not a whit more. It's a great place to find listings of events. A decent way to find people to talk to (in real life, eventually). To find great wank-fodder (big ups to K&P). It makes for an easy way to find a