10 Things that New Dominants Should Know, Learn, or at least be Ranted at About
Today’s rant was brought to you by the people who have emailed, asking me the “What Advice Do You Have for a…” questions…and the sheer number of people I’ve met in the scene who really should have asked these questions of someone, at some point. This post is written with the assumption that it is aimed at them – the non-abusive, non-experienced, honestly-earnest Future Dominants of America (tm). There are certain things which ever Dominant needs to know, before they begin playing hands on with a vulnerable, fresh faced, tight-assed little (or BBW, if you prefer) play partner. They’re an important part of that sacred journey of dominance, responsibility, etcetera, etcetera, and ass beating. (Never underestimate the importance of ass beating). They will someday lead you to blahblah responsibility blahblah maturity blahblah ass-beating. Just read them already, okay? 1. First Aid and CPR. At an event, at the very least, the DM and host should know basic first