ROUGH BODY PLAY - AKA No, you may not get your Mad On without consequence
I just recently had a conversation that has me a bit…well…pissed. Furious, really. So this rant? This one here? Gonna be a bit tart. And unlike my normal rants - it's not going to sit for weeks at a time to cool off and lose some of the piquancy. Here’s the thing. I am getting bloody fucking sick and tired of the phrase, “She knew the risks when she played with me.” This isn’t a “consent violation” rant. It isn’t a “poor little female sub” rant. There are enough of those out there, and those aren’t the story I get to tell – I’m a Hetero Male Dinosaur, not a Victimized Female Submissive. But. For all you big strong rough body player Dom/mes out there? There is a difference between rough body play, and being an emotionally unhealthy, imbalanced sadistic asshole. And I really, really, really fucking wish you would start acknowledging that, and stop buying your own fucking Hype. Rough body play (AKA “thug play”, “heavy beati